Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage

Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it can sometimes lose its luster over time. The initial excitement and passion may fade away, and the relationship can start to feel routine and predictable. However, with a little effort and creativity, you can infuse magic, mystery, and spark back into your everyday marriage.

Firstly, it's important to remember that magic is not necessarily only found in grand gestures and extravagant surprises. It can also be discovered in the simple, everyday moments. Creating a sense of magic starts with a mindset shift – viewing your partner and relationship with awe and wonder. Appreciating the small details and qualities that make your partner unique can help you see them in a new light.

One way to cultivate a sense of magic in your marriage is by regularly expressing gratitude. Take a moment each day to reflect on the things you appreciate about your partner and vocalize your gratitude. It can be as simple as saying "thank you" for their support or acknowledging a kind act they did. This not only creates a positive atmosphere, but it also helps you cherish and value your partner more.

The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage

by Lisa Jacobson(Kindle Edition)

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Mystery is another element that can breathe life into a relationship. It keeps things fresh, exciting, and unpredictable. Embrace spontaneity by planning surprise date nights or weekend getaways without revealing the destination. Set up a scavenger hunt with hidden love notes leading to a surprise gift. Engaging in activities that challenge your routine and encourage exploration together can bring back the thrill of discovery.

Keeping the spark alive in your everyday marriage involves maintaining a strong emotional and physical connection. Communication plays a vital role in building intimacy, so take the time to have meaningful conversations with your partner. Share your dreams, fears, and desires openly, and actively listen to what they have to say. Regularly express affection, hold hands, cuddle, and engage in acts of physical intimacy to nurture the spark between you.

However, to truly put magic, mystery, and spark into your everyday marriage, you need to continuously work on yourself as an individual. Self-improvement not only benefits you but also the relationship. Explore your own passions and interests, set personal goals, and invest time in pursuing your hobbies. When you are excited about your own life, it enhances the overall energy of the relationship.

Additionally, embrace novelty in your marriage by trying new things together. Explore different hobbies, embark on adventures, or learn a new skill as a couple. Breaking free from the mundane routine and experiencing new things together can reignite the passion and create shared memories that deepen your bond.

Another effective way to infuse magic, mystery, and spark into your marriage is through the power of surprises. Surprise your partner with unexpected gestures or gifts. Plan secret anniversary celebrations or surprise them with breakfast in bed. These small acts of kindness and thoughtfulness go a long way in keeping the relationship exciting and unpredictable.

Remember, a successful marriage is built on love, trust, and mutual respect. It requires constant effort and nourishment. By putting magic, mystery, and spark into your everyday marriage, you breathe new life into your relationship and create a foundation for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

So start today! Embrace the magic in the small moments, cultivate mystery and excitement, and continuously work on yourself and your relationship. By doing so, you will elevate your everyday marriage to extraordinary heights.

The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage

by Lisa Jacobson(Kindle Edition)

4.6 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	5738 KB
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Screen Reader	:	Supported
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
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From popular Christian voices Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, The Flirtation Experiment inspires you to strengthen your marriage with a fun, unexpected approach that leads to the depth, richness, and closeness you desire. 

Romance novels, Hallmark movies . . . the immense demand for romantic stories reveals a deep, unsatisfied longing that can be found in many marriages, but does it have to be that way? Is it possible that the best marriage has to offer can grow, rather than fade after you say “I do”? Lisa and Phylicia say, “Absolutely yes!” 

So what is the secret to a happy, thriving, loving marriage, where the fire of romance and close friendship do not fade? While The Flirtation Experiment includes the frisky side of marriage, it’s far more than a good romp. By degrees, each chapter takes you to a deeper place, covering themes every beautiful marriage has in common, such as covenant, healing, and hope. 

After reading The Flirtation Experiment, wives will

• be filled with hope and encouragement for how they can make a powerful, positive change in their marriages,
• become empowered to pursue their husbands romantically,
• understand the Bible invites women to be proactive in their marriages,
• be motivated to consistently love in creative ways, and
• forge closeness and intimacy in their marriages. 

“Intentional flirting keeps a positive lightness in the atmosphere and improves our overall communication,” says Jacobson. “My light flirtations bring us closer in meaningful ways and lead to connection on a deeper level. It helps us discover true romance waiting for us in everyday situations.” 

Perfect for the wife who wants romance, passion, and the closeness that only comes from a deep heart connection but isn’t sure where to start, The Flirtation Experiment is a candid, real-life record of two Christian women from different seasons of life who discovered they could make a significant impact on their marriage relationships, one small flirtatious experiment at a time.

Readers can go deeper by using The Flirtation Experiment Workbook.